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Are we really worse parents than our own parents

katriona's picture

I read all the newspaper coverage associated with the new childhood report and it was pretty dire, as usual working women get most of the blame and this makes me so cross.

 

Do the writers and researchers of these studies not remember back to their childhoods, as children we were expected to be out of the way all the time, under no circumstances were we to be around our mothers feet, we were sent outside in the morning, called back to eat and that was that. We did not chat with other adults, we called our parents friends Mr and Mrs so and so, we had no voice or choice we were simply told what was happening and that was that.

 

I do not think the problem lies with working mothers but perhaps the voice we have given our children is the problem and that they cannot cope with the power they have been given. I would love to know what you think about this matter - please comment below

Trinity's picture
When my daughter was growing up, if she needed a slap on the legs for mis-behaviour she got it whether we were outside or not. She has grown into a very respectful adult. The other thing that annoys me is this thing about single parents having less than average children, I brought my daughter up myself and she is now studying at one of the top 10 Universitys in England. I think the people who write these reports need to actually have children and walk a mile in parents shoes before they go spouting their rubbish and saying that giving discipline to your child is wrong.
charlie6's picture

I'm with you on this one katriona.  When I was little we were just trainee adults.  We were taught good manners, when to bite our tongues etc.  Kids now just seem to think the world revolves around them and that there's a special privileged place called 'childhood' where they can ignore everyone else's feelings and behave like little feral animals.  Yuk!!!

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